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2024-03-04

Cheated?! Have a goal..

Have your goal clear!
“My husband/wife cheated. How can I process this?”

By becoming aware of what your goal is and why it is worth it.

What do you really want? Write it down:

Get help! From friends who REALLY support you and don’t drag their own lives into it. Advice like: “He keeps cheating on you!”, “Throw the bitch out!” etc. won’t help you! The more you feel validated as a victim, the harder it will be for you to forgive.

Pay attention to the progress and the good moments. When do you feel better? Why?
Deal with the topic of infidelity. 

Being cheated on isn’t funny…
…but it can also be a way to take your relationship to a new level. Take advantage of this opportunity. For some reason this happened to you. Listen. Your life wants to tell you something.

Every person is individual and therefore not all tips will definitely suit you and your current situation. Pick out what feels good and where you say: “Yes, I want to try that.” Read the post again if you have already taken the first steps. Then you may find further ideas that will only be helpful to you later.

From the bottom of my heart, I wish you a happy relationship (again), a love that continues to grow, a serenity that you didn’t have before and a life that you really want.

Life can be easy and fun. Love too!